Friday, January 29, 2010

My second daugther Mia (5.5 month old now)

wow... i didn't write my blog for almost half year... wondering why i was being so lazy, cos i am a mom of two so life is even more harder than before. Chloe is getting more trouble and trouble each day and Mia is getting more alert to the surroundings each day, its quite challenging to handle two girls at the same time.

They are very different in everything. the look, body shape, drinking habbit, poo poo texture, hair color and texture are totally different... even now, i can't tell who look more like daddy and mommy, i think they both has their own look indeed.

MIA.........Mia is a lazy sucker, luckily she has lots of breastmilk to drink and you won't believe she has over 150 packs extra in the freezer. I already gave around 50 packs away to help someone in need. will try to donate all to someone who is in need of breastmilk. I am very proud of having so much milk for her and others... however i have to suffer myself for lossing more hair. She didn't get sick until today she caught a bit cold from us... am sure she will recover sooner than us.

Thurday, i brought her to PEKIP.. the naked playgroup. It was good, all babies are naked and they mess around together. I am sure Mia enjoys it very much and she is getting excited each time she goes out with us. I feel guilty for not spending enough time with her cos i actually have to spend more time looking after Chloe than her.

CHLOE....... she is getting more independent now she is almost 2.5 yrs old. recently we noticed she can managed to go vee vee, poo poo by herself without telling us. hold the bowl of rice to eat rather than have someone assisting to feed her... but getting more fuzzy due to her running nose and teething.... I am very busy to plan her day to be busy, to ensure she can use up her energy before bedtime, otherwise she will keep talking non-stop or messing around until she used up her daily energy quota... what a busy mom to keep a busy kid, no wonder i get fit so fast, cos i have to go everywhere with her, climbing up and down with her... doing everything together with her..

GARY..... he is a good Daddy with low EQ. still very stressed about anything on Chloe, hope he can learn to be higher EQ and take it easy to make his life happier. you won't believe he always feels stressed about nothing at all... i always remind him, having two healthy kids are lucky and you don't need to be stressed on anything like the milk is too hot, too much, or water is too cold.

I don't see he is more happy than before, cos he has so much worriesssssssssss in his head and now he feels headache almost everyday and get sick every week. poor him... whenever Chloe is sick, he felt more sick than anyone, cos he hates to see her suffering from the illness that no one would really worry about... but he does

FIONA... with my life is being so busy and simple now... by the time Mia reached 5 month old, i already get back into shape like before. maybe has extra 4-5 lbs milk still storing in my body.... lossing so much hair, look older and always day dreaming while not with my kids. Since i have no time to sleep at night, being away with my kids for an hour a day is the only time i can day dream a bit.